Thursday, February 27, 2025

...rage rooms to meditation, ways to control anger...

 
Healthy Ways to Control Anger: From Rage Rooms to Meditation

Introduction Anger is a natural human emotion, but when left unchecked, it can negatively impact mental and physical health. Suppressing anger isn’t always the best solution; instead, finding healthy outlets to manage and release it can lead to better emotional well-being. In this post, we explore effective ways to control anger, from physical activities like rage rooms to mindfulness techniques like meditation.

1. Rage Rooms: Smashing Stress Away Sometimes, anger feels overwhelming and needs an immediate release. Rage rooms, also known as smash rooms, provide a controlled environment where individuals can break objects like plates, electronics, and furniture to vent frustration safely. The physical act of destruction can offer instant relief and help reduce stress. These rooms are perfect for those who prefer a hands-on way to release pent-up emotions.

2. Meditation: Finding Calm in the Chaos Meditation helps train the mind to respond to anger in a healthier way. Techniques like mindfulness meditation encourage individuals to acknowledge their emotions without reacting impulsively. Simple breathing exercises, such as inhaling deeply for four counts and exhaling for four counts, can help diffuse anger quickly. Beginners can start with just five minutes a day using apps like Headspace or Calm to develop a meditation habit.

3. Music Therapy: Let the Sound Heal You Music has a profound impact on emotions. When angry, some people find that listening to calming tunes like classical, lo-fi, or instrumental music helps soothe their nerves. Others prefer an intense release by blasting rock or heavy metal to channel their emotions constructively. Creating a personalized playlist—one for letting anger out and another for calming down—can be an effective tool for managing anger.

4. Physical Activity: Move the Anger Out Exercise is a powerful tool for anger management. Activities like boxing, running, or weightlifting provide an excellent outlet for pent-up frustration while boosting endorphins, which naturally enhance mood. For a more calming approach, yoga combines physical movement with deep breathing to help regulate emotions and reduce stress.

5. Journaling: Writing It Out Sometimes, expressing emotions on paper can be just as powerful as speaking them aloud. Journaling allows individuals to explore the root of their anger and release it in a structured way. Prompts such as “What triggered my anger today?” or “How can I react differently next time?” can provide clarity and insight. Another helpful method is writing an “angry letter” to someone (without sending it) and then tearing it up or burning it as a symbolic release.

6. Herbal Remedies & Aromatherapy Natural remedies can assist in anger management by promoting relaxation. Adaptogenic herbs like Ashwagandha help regulate stress responses, while herbal teas like chamomile and peppermint have soothing effects. Aromatherapy using essential oils such as lavender, bergamot, and frankincense can also create a calming atmosphere, reducing tension and irritability.

7. Talking It Out: Therapy & Support Groups Verbalizing anger in a constructive way can prevent it from festering. Speaking with a trusted friend, therapist, or support group can offer new perspectives and coping strategies. Professional therapy, especially cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), teaches individuals how to identify and change negative thought patterns associated with anger.

Conclusion Anger is a normal emotion, but learning to manage it effectively is crucial for overall well-being. Whether it’s smashing things in a rage room, meditating, exercising, or journaling, finding the right outlet is key. Experiment with different techniques to see what works best for you. What are your favorite ways to handle anger? 

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Please note that the content of this blog has not been assessed by the FDA and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any disease or condition. This content is not medical advice but is provided solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We are not medical experts; rather, we are an enthusiastic couple who enjoy life, have fun, share knowledge, and strive to spread joy. Always seek advice from your healthcare provider before using any products or embarking on any diet or exercise regimen.

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We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!

Saturday, February 8, 2025

...happy February...let's celebrate our hearts...

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched—they must be felt with the heart.” 
~ Helen Keller~

February is Heart Awareness Month, making it the perfect time to focus on keeping our hearts strong and healthy—naturally. Heart disease remains the leading cause of death worldwide, and in the U.S. alone, it accounts for 1 in 5 deaths each year. According to the CDC:
  • Every 33 seconds, someone in the U.S. dies from cardiovascular disease.
  • Nearly 50% of Americans have at least one risk factor, such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, or smoking.
  • Heart disease affects women and men, but women often experience different symptoms, leading to delayed diagnosis.
  • Lifestyle and diet play a huge role in heart health—making holistic wellness more important than ever.

While modern medicine offers treatments, prevention is key. That’s why incorporating heart-supporting herbs and natural remedies can be a game-changer for cardiovascular wellness. Let’s explore some of the best herbs for a healthy heart—plus how cannabis fits into the conversation.

At 520Aftermath, we’re all about holistic healing, and today, we’re sharing some of the best herbs for heart health—plus how cannabis plays a role in cardiovascular support.

1. Hawthorn: The Heart’s Best Friend

Hawthorn is a powerful herb known for its ability to strengthen the heart muscle, improve circulation, and regulate blood pressure. It’s packed with antioxidants that protect against oxidative stress—a major contributor to heart disease.

💜 How to Use: Drink hawthorn tea, take it as a tincture, or find it in supplement form.

2. Garlic: Nature’s Blood Pressure Regulator

Garlic isn’t just for flavor—it’s also a heart-healthy powerhouse. Studies show that garlic can help lower blood pressure, reduce cholesterol, and prevent plaque buildup in arteries.

💜 How to Use: Add fresh garlic to meals, take garlic capsules, or try fermented black garlic for an extra boost.

3. Turmeric: Anti-Inflammatory Magic

Chronic inflammation is a major contributor to heart disease. Turmeric, with its active compound curcumin, helps reduce inflammation, support blood vessel function, and protect against arterial damage.

💜 How to Use: Drink golden milk, add turmeric to meals, or take a high-quality curcumin supplement with black pepper for better absorption.

4. Cinnamon: Sweet & Heart-Friendly

Cinnamon does more than spice up your favorite treats—it helps regulate blood sugar, reduce cholesterol levels, and improve circulation.

💜 How to Use: Sprinkle cinnamon on oatmeal, smoothies, or herbal teas for a daily heart boost.

5. Cannabis & Heart Health: What’s the Connection?

Cannabis is gaining attention for its potential cardiovascular benefits. Research suggests that CBD (cannabidiol) may help lower blood pressure, reduce stress, and combat inflammation—all key factors in heart health. However, THC’s effects on heart health vary, so mindful consumption is essential.

💜 How to Use: If using cannabis for wellness, opt for CBD-rich strains, tinctures, or edibles. Always consult with a healthcare professional if you have pre-existing heart conditions.

Our hearts work hard every day—let’s show them some love! Whether through herbal teas, mindful cannabis use, or heart-healthy foods, small natural changes can make a big impact.

At 520Aftermath, we’re all about smoke one, tell one, but we’re also about live well, heal naturally. Have a favorite heart-supporting herb? Drop it in the comments! 💜💨

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Peace out, pray for the world, it's crazy out there, much love and as always #smokeonetellone

We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!

Wednesday, January 29, 2025

...community, advocacy and chronic illness...

 

A beautiful quote by a beautiful soul:
"Alone, we can do so little; together we can do so much."
~Helen Keller~

The Power of Community: Why Advocacy Matters for Chronic Illness

Living with a chronic illness like lupus can feel isolating, but one of the most powerful tools for healing isn’t found in a prescription bottle—it’s found in community. Support, advocacy, and connection can make a world of difference for those navigating life with chronic conditions.

Breaking the Silence

For many, the journey with chronic illness begins with confusion and frustration. Symptoms are often invisible, and getting a proper diagnosis can take years. Too often, people suffer in silence because they feel misunderstood or unheard. This is where advocacy comes in. By raising awareness, sharing experiences, and educating others, we create a world where those with chronic illnesses don’t have to struggle alone.

The Strength in Support

Support groups—whether online or in-person—offer a lifeline for those managing chronic conditions. 

They provide:

Emotional Support: Knowing you’re not alone can ease the emotional burden of illness.

Shared Knowledge: Community members exchange tips on treatments, doctors, and lifestyle changes.

Empowerment: Connecting with others encourages self-advocacy and confidence in navigating healthcare.

Advocacy: Creating Change Together

Advocacy isn’t just about awareness—it’s about action. Here’s how you can contribute:

Speak Up – Share your story on social media, blogs, or community events to raise awareness.

Educate – Help others understand the realities of chronic illness and how they can be allies.

Support Legislation – Advocate for policies that improve healthcare access, disability rights, and research funding.

Join or Create a Support Group – Whether local or virtual, fostering connections helps build a stronger, united voice.

Why It Matters

Community and advocacy can lead to better medical research, improved healthcare policies, and more compassion in society. When we come together, we amplify each other’s voices, making real change possible.

At 520Aftermath, we believe in the power of storytelling, education, and lifting each other up. Whether through our blog, podcast, or social media, we’re here to spark conversations that matter. Because when we #SmokeOneTellOne, we create a community that thrives together.

How has community impacted your chronic illness journey? Share your story!💜

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Please note that the content of this blog has not been assessed by the FDA and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any disease or condition. This content is not medical advice but is provided solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We are not medical experts; rather, we are an enthusiastic couple who enjoy life, have fun, share knowledge, and strive to spread joy. Always seek advice from your healthcare provider before using any products or embarking on any diet or exercise regimen.

Peace out, pray for the world, it's crazy out there, much love and as always #smokeonetellone

We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!

Wednesday, January 22, 2025

...do you get the 'winter blues?'...here's some tips to make you a bit happier...


Welcome to the 520Aftermath blog family!

"Winter is not a season, it's a celebration."
~Anamika Mishra~

Beating the Winter Blues: Tips for a Happier, Healthier Season

Winter can be a challenging time for many of us. The shorter days, colder weather, and lack of sunlight can take a toll on our mood and energy levels. This phenomenon, often called the “winter blues,” is more common than you might think. But don’t worry—we’ve got you covered with some natural, holistic tips to help you feel brighter and more balanced this winter season.

1. Let There Be Light

Sunlight is a natural mood booster. Even on cloudy days, spending time outdoors can make a big difference.

Open your curtains to let in as much natural light as possible and consider using a light therapy lamp if you’re not getting enough sun.

If you’re in a wheelchair or have mobility challenges, find an accessible spot near a window or outdoor space where you can enjoy some light.

2. Stay Active

Exercise is a proven way to combat low energy and mood dips. Activities like yoga, stretching, or light strength training can do wonders for your mental health.

For wheelchair users, chair yoga or upper-body exercises can be great options. There are plenty of online resources and videos to guide you.

3. Nourish Your Body

Eat foods that support your well-being. Omega-3 fatty acids, found in walnuts, flaxseeds, and salmon, are known to boost mood.

Herbal teas, like chamomile or peppermint, can be soothing and help you feel grounded.

Don’t forget about staying hydrated! It’s easy to drink less water in colder weather, but hydration is key to overall wellness.

4. Harness the Power of Herbs

Adaptogenic herbs, like ashwagandha and Rhodiola rosea, can help your body adapt to stress and improve your energy levels.

Aromatherapy with essential oils like lavender, citrus, or eucalyptus can lift your spirits and create a calming environment.

5. Create a Cozy Ritual

Winter is the perfect time to embrace hygge—the Danish concept of coziness. Surround yourself with soft blankets, warm lighting, and soothing scents.

Create a daily ritual, like journaling with a warm cup of herbal tea or soaking in a bath with Reba's Tomorrow natural, fragrant bath salts.

6. Connect With Loved Ones

Social connection is vital for mental health. Schedule regular video calls, game nights, or coffee dates (even virtual ones) with friends and family.

If you’re part of a community like 520Aftermath, join discussions and share wellness tips—you never know who might need your insight!

7. Practice Mindfulness

Meditation, deep breathing, or simply being present in the moment can help reduce stress and improve mood.

Guided meditations specifically tailored for relaxation can be a great addition to your daily routine.

8. Set Small Goals

Accomplishing small tasks can provide a sense of purpose and lift your spirits. Break larger goals into manageable steps and celebrate your progress.

For example, try organizing a small corner of your home, experimenting with a new recipe from Reba's Tomorrow, or starting a creative project.

9. Seek Support When Needed

If you find that the winter blues are turning into something more serious, like seasonal affective disorder (SAD), don’t hesitate to seek help. Therapists, support groups, and wellness communities are here for you.

Many holistic practitioners offer virtual sessions, making it easy to access support from the comfort of your home.

Embrace the Season

Remember, winter doesn’t have to be all about gloom and doom. It’s an opportunity to slow down, reflect, and prioritize self-care. By incorporating these tips into your daily routine, you can beat the winter blues and embrace the season with warmth and positivity.

What are your favorite ways to combat the winter blues? Share your tips with the 520Aftermath community in the comments below. Let’s keep each other inspired and uplifted all season long!

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Please note that the content of this blog has not been assessed by the FDA and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any disease or condition. This content is not medical advice but is provided solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We are not medical experts; rather, we are an enthusiastic couple who enjoy life, have fun, share knowledge, and strive to spread joy. Always seek advice from your healthcare provider before using any products or embarking on any diet or exercise regimen.

Peace out, pray for the world, it's crazy out there, much love and as always #smokeonetellone

We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!

Saturday, January 11, 2025

...women over 50 enjoying sex...breaking the taboo...part 3

A favorite funny quote from one of my favorite funny ladies! 
"I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was 'the man goes on top and the woman underneath.' For three years my husband and I slept in bunk beds." 
~Joan Rivers~

Celebrating Sexuality: Why Women Over 50 Should Embrace Pleasure and Orgasms

For far too long, society has perpetuated the idea that sexuality fades with age, especially for women. But let’s set the record straight: Sexuality doesn’t have an expiration date. Women over 50 can (and should!) experience vibrant, fulfilling sex lives—and yes, that includes having orgasms. In fact, embracing pleasure at this stage of life is not only possible but incredibly empowering.
At 520Aftermath, we believe in breaking taboos, embracing holistic wellness, and celebrating life at every stage. So, let’s dive into why prioritizing intimacy and pleasure after 50 is one of the best gifts you can give yourself.

The Benefits of Sexuality Over 50
1. Physical Health Benefits
A healthy sex life contributes to overall physical well-being. Orgasms release endorphins, the body's natural painkillers, which can help alleviate aches, improve sleep, and even boost your immune system. Regular intimacy has also been shown to:
Improve cardiovascular health by increasing blood circulation.
Balance hormone levels, which can help manage menopause symptoms like hot flashes or mood swings.
Strengthen pelvic floor muscles, reducing the risk of incontinence.

2. Mental and Emotional Well-Being
Sexuality is about more than just physical pleasure—it’s about feeling alive. Intimacy releases oxytocin, the “bonding hormone,” which reduces stress, strengthens emotional connections, and enhances mental health. Women who embrace their sexuality often experience:
Reduced anxiety and depression.
Enhanced self-confidence and body image.
A renewed sense of vitality and joy.

Breaking Myths and Taboos
Let’s address the elephant in the room: societal myths about older women and sex. The media often portrays aging women as uninterested or incapable of enjoying intimacy, but nothing could be further from the truth.
Myth: Women lose their sex drive after menopause.
Reality: Hormonal changes may shift libido, but this is an opportunity to explore new ways to experience pleasure.

Myth: It’s embarrassing to discuss sex at this age.
Reality: Talking openly about your needs is liberating and builds stronger relationships.

By shattering these stereotypes, women over 50 can reclaim their sexual agency and rewrite the narrative around aging and intimacy.

Exploring Pleasure Holistically
A fulfilling sex life isn’t just about physical connection; it’s also about nurturing your body, mind, and soul. Here are some holistic approaches to enhancing intimacy:
Herbal Remedies: Natural supplements like maca root, ashwagandha, and ginseng can boost energy, reduce stress, and support libido.
Cannabis: Many women are turning to cannabis for relaxation and heightened sensations. Topical products like oils or balms can enhance intimacy, while edibles or tinctures promote relaxation and mindfulness.
Mindfulness Practices: Yoga, meditation, and breathing exercises can help you connect with your body and increase sensual awareness.

Tips for Enhancing Sexual Wellness
If you’re ready to embrace your sexuality at this stage of life, here are some practical steps:
1. Prioritize Self-Care: A healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet, and stress management, lays the foundation for sexual wellness.

2. Rediscover Self-Exploration: Take time to understand what feels good for you. Explore new experiences, sensations, or tools, such as toys or sensual rituals.

3. Open Conversations: Communication is key to intimacy. Talk openly with your partner about your needs, desires, and boundaries.

4. Try Something New: Whether it’s lingerie, role-playing, or experimenting with different environments, keeping things fresh can reignite passion.

. Whether you’re single, in a long-term relationship, or exploring new connections, embracing your sexuality over 50 is about empowerment, self-love, and joy.
At 520Aftermath and Reba's Tomorrow, we celebrate the natural, holistic journey to wellness—including the deeply personal journey of intimacy. 

It’s never too late to experience pleasure, prioritize your needs, and enjoy all the benefits that come with it.
So, let go of the taboos, celebrate your desires, and remember: your sexuality is yours to embrace, unapologetically.

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Please note that the content of this blog has not been assessed by the FDA and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any disease or condition. This content is not medical advice but is provided solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We are not medical experts; rather, we are an enthusiastic couple who enjoy life, have fun, share knowledge, and strive to spread joy. Always seek advice from your healthcare provider before using any products or embarking on any diet or exercise regimen.

Peace out, pray for the world, it's crazy out there, much love and as always #smokeonetellone

We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!

...embracing hope in the wake of regret...


An awesome quote for the New Year! 
"Each year's regrets are enveloped in which messages of hope are found for the New Year."
~John R. Dallas Jr.~

Embracing Hope in the Wake of Regret

As the New Year approaches, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the past—the triumphs, the challenges, and yes, even the regrets. Regret is a powerful teacher, often leaving us with a lingering sense of what could have been. But within those feelings lies a profound opportunity to grow, learn, and embrace the messages of hope that come with a new beginning.

John R. Dallas Jr. beautifully captures this sentiment: “Each year’s regrets are enveloped in which messages of hope are found for the New Year.” This quote reminds us that regret doesn’t have to be a weight we carry forward. Instead, it can become a steppingstone toward a brighter future.

Regret teaches us valuable lessons. Perhaps it shows us areas where we can improve or relationships we need to mend. It might highlight dreams we’ve set aside or remind us to cherish the small, everyday moments. While regret can feel heavy, it’s important to remember that it also plants seed of hope, offering a clear view of what truly matters and what we want to change.

As we transition into the New Year, let’s shift our perspective. Here are a few ways to transform regret into hope:

1. Reflect Without Judgement:

Take time to acknowledge your regrets without beating yourself up. Understand the lessons they offer and how they’ve shaped your journey.

2. Set Meaningful Intentions:

Use the wisdom gained from your reflections to set realistic, heartfelt intentions for the year ahead. Focus on growth rather than perfection.

3. Embrace Gratitude:

While regrets can cloud our vision, gratitude clears the path. Reflect on the blessings and achievements of the past year, no matter how small.

4. Take Action:

Hope becomes powerful when paired with action. Whether it’s rekindling a friendship, pursuing a passion, or committing to better self-care, take tangible steps toward your goals.

5. Celebrate Progress:

Acknowledge each step forward, no matter how incremental. Progress is proof that you’re moving in the right direction.

The New Year is not just a calendar change; it’s an opportunity to reimagine our lives, to shed the weight of yesterday’s regrets, and to embrace the hope and potential of tomorrow. As we stand on the threshold of a new chapter, let’s carry the wisdom of the past while stepping forward with faith, optimism, and determination.

May this New Year bring you clarity, strength, and endless hope. After all, within every regret lies a message—a whisper of the life we’re capable of creating. Let’s listen closely and move boldly into the future.

Health tip for the New Year:

 Focus on small, consistent habits like staying hydrated, moving daily, eating whole foods, getting quality sleep, and practicing gratitude. Consistency beats perfection, start small and build momentum!

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Please note that the content of this blog has not been assessed by the FDA and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any disease or condition. This content is not medical advice but is provided solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We are not medical experts; rather, we are an enthusiastic couple who enjoy life, have fun, share knowledge, and strive to spread joy. Always seek advice from your healthcare provider before using any products or embarking on any diet or exercise regimen.

Peace out, pray for the world, it's crazy out there, much love and as always #smokeonetellone

We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!

Monday, December 30, 2024

...a lesson in forgiveness...

A favorite quote about forgiveness:
"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future."
~Paul Boese~

 Finding Grace in a Frustrating Moment

This Christmas, we had an experience that caught us off guard and tested our faith and hearts. A Christmas card that was sent to us, originally containing a Texas Roadhouse gift card and money, arrived empty. It had been opened and resealed before we got it. Naturally, our first reaction was anger, and in the heat of the moment, we said things we shouldn’t have...like hoping the person who stole it would face horrible consequences.
But as we reflected, we realized something important: forgiveness matters more than our frustration. We don’t know the circumstances of the person who took it, but we do know this...G-d calls us to forgive, just as HE forgives us. Maybe they needed it more than we did, and even if they didn’t, grace is always the better path.
The moral of the story? When life challenges you, don’t let anger take root. Take a breath, lean on faith, and choose love over bitterness. We’re grateful for this reminder to let go and let G-d!
Wishing you all peace, happiness and forgiveness.

It's vital to take care of ourselves, here's a little health tip for you:
Start your morning with a glass of warm water mixed with freshly squeezed lemon juice. This simple drink can help kickstart your digestion, hydrate your body, and provide a boost of vitamin C to support your immune system!

From our little family to yours, we wish you an exciting New Year filled with tons of happiness, fun, blessings, health and love! 

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Please note that the content of this blog has not been assessed by the FDA and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any disease or condition. This content is not medical advice but is provided solely for educational and entertainment purposes. We are not medical experts; rather, we are an enthusiastic couple who enjoy life, have fun, share knowledge, and strive to spread joy. Always seek advice from your healthcare provider before using any products or embarking on any diet or exercise regimen.

Peace out, pray for the world, it's crazy out there, much love and as always #smokeonetellone

We hope you are experiencing as little pain as possible through natural means and living your life to the fullest, with as much happiness as possible!